Open Question: guy problem long reader but please help?
Long Term Care - - Posted on January, 27 at 1:01 am
so we’ve been chatting for about a month now, and we both really like each other and really care about each other, he is like amazing ( too me anyway) but i can’t help but feel he’s holding something back from me, he seems to be really honest and he knows a hell of allot about me, but i have got this gut feeling he is hiding something back from me,like we’ll be bbming’ each other fine for a while then all of a sudden he’ll stop talking for a few hours then when he replies he explains himself and then he starts going a bit offy,it sounds like im really paranoid and controlling but i’m not, i don’t bombard him with 1000’s of phone calls and text messages of bbms i just wait for him to reply, and i never ask for an explanation from him neither but he always finds the need to tell me why he’s been busy even though its nothing to do with me and i don’t mind that he’s busy or whatever.its just the awkwardness after, like he’ll be really blunt not speak to me the same as he was earlier on. its just weird and then when it gets late he’s back to what he’s normally like to me, he’s been like this for the past week when i ask him if he’s okay he’s always like yeah i am, then he’ll start randomly saying sorry for me thinking there was something wrong or sorry for being a dick, even though he hasn’t done anything wrong.i’ve just got out of a long term violent relationship and i really don’t have time for people to mess me about he says he is serious about me but he doesn’t seem to want too make much of an effort, like he’ll ask me to ring him but only when he says its okay, i have to speak to him first after the phone call. He wants to get some money too come and take me out and he really wants to see me and make us official and apparently his mums lending him some he said that about 3 weeks ago even if i don’t bring up that subject he’s like oh my mum still hasn’t given me money blah blah blah, i understand moneys tight for everyone at the moment, and ive told him i just wanna see him i’m not fussed about going out anywhere. there just seems more then he’s letting on he’s also mentioned a few times that theirs girl he could just text and he’d get sex, but he wouldn’t do that because he feels to strongly about me.. but i don’t get why he had to tell me at all.what do you lot think isit just my mind playing games or what?
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